The great French Marshall
Lyautey once asked his gardener to plant a tree. The gardener objected that the
tree was slow growing and would not reach maturity for 100 years. The Marshall
replied, 'In that case, there is no time to lose; plant it
this afternoon! –
John F. Kennedy
Way back
in a former life, an electric utility CEO once told me that he had just left a
meeting in which his board of directors had instantly approved spending
$10,000,000 on a new substation without batting an eye, then debated for an
hour before tabling a motion to expend $3,000 on a bit of office carpeting.
“Some
things seem too big to question,” he reasoned. “Instead, people object to
little things that cost next to nothing, but provide a convenient illusion of
control.”
I would
say the same flawed thinking holds true for spending time. According to the
Bureau of Labor Statistics, the average 25-64 year old adult spends his/her life like so:
33% Sleep
24%
Full-time job
11.3%
Watching television
9% Other activities/self-care
8.3%
Household/family
5.2%
Eating
4.5%
Online
4.1%
Commuting
0.6%
Religious activities
It
is appropriate and healthy for us to sleep a third of our life away. It is hard
to escape spending a third of our lives pursuing a living. But surrendering 15.8% to staring at a screen?!? And, if 99.4% of
our precious time is spent elsewhere, why are our faith practices often first
to suffer when life gets hectic?
In
the early days of my ministry, I still worked full-time at a local advertising
agency. One day a co-worker approached me. He was in his early 30s. He and his
wife had young children. He put in a lot of hours at the office.
“I
was raised Christian,” he said to me, “and I do miss my church. But by the time
Sunday morning comes around, we’re too exhausted from our week to pack the kids
in the car and head off to worship. What can I do?”
This
was the first time I was ever asked this question. I’ve answered it a thousand
times since, but my reply really hasn’t changed in all these years. It is
obvious to me that my friend wasn’t questioning the big things, but strained
mightily at that which involved a fraction of a fraction of his resources. I
could have suggested my co-worker not stay so late at the office when he was tired and his potential
productivity was so low. I could have recommended he turn off the TV and spend
more time in physical activity with his family. But he didn’t ask me to
critique how he spent his time. He asked me how he could possibly connect to
his faith community when he was completely spent at the end of a long week.
“Don’t
go to church at the end of your week,” I suggested. “Go at the beginning of
your week instead. I bet the support, energy and inspiration you’ll gain will improve the six days that follow.”
Last
I knew, he and his family were still attending their church regularly.
